Here are some updates and exciting news concerning Youth Ministry at the KCI Campus:
-Sunday morning youth time will be 9am, meeting in Suite 206 on the second floor. Youth in grades 6-12 should plan to attend. If you are not there, I will come looking for you! LOL
-Praise God for supplying a HUGE FREE space for the youth to use on Sunday mornings. (You should see the closet we were going to use before God stepped in!!)
-Youth will be worshipping during the 10:30 service with their families. (Hey, we want to get to lunch early too!)
-This weeks lesson will be from Genesis 1:1-2 and will address the new church start. You won't want to miss this high maginitude event of historic proportions.
-I am in NEED of adult youth workers to help on Sunday mornings, especially men. Here is a list of the criteria for filling these spots. Youth workers must:
1. Love God
2. Like Students
3. Have a noticable pulse
Please see me if you meet any 2 out of the 3 criteria, as you are a potential Youth Worker.
See you on Sunday morning, January 4th.
Wednesday, December 31, 2008
Monday, December 29, 2008
First Sunday at the KCI Campus Jan. 4!
Woohoo! It is finally here! We begin services at the KCI Campus this coming Sunday! We are rushing around getting last minute items together to prep for this weekend. We will have two weeks of services before our grand opening on Jan. 18.
This past Sunday, we had a great time of worship with just under 100 people in the Student Center. Megan did a great job of leading the worship music time and Tim Overby brought a great challenge to share Christ's love with those relationships that we have around us.
As we approach this Sunday, don't forget that our worship times are:
9:00 am, and
10:30 am
The exciting thing is - starting at 10:30 - we will finish in time to beat the Methodist and the Presbyterians to lunch! Sweet ! LOL!
This past Sunday, we had a great time of worship with just under 100 people in the Student Center. Megan did a great job of leading the worship music time and Tim Overby brought a great challenge to share Christ's love with those relationships that we have around us.
As we approach this Sunday, don't forget that our worship times are:
9:00 am, and
10:30 am
The exciting thing is - starting at 10:30 - we will finish in time to beat the Methodist and the Presbyterians to lunch! Sweet ! LOL!
Wednesday, December 24, 2008
Tuesday, December 23, 2008
Second Trial Run Service
Well, we finished our second service at the Liberty campus and wow was it great! I love Christmas songs! and we had some great ones! Vernon gave a great challenge of closing the service gap in our lives to be a 'torchlighter' of love and hope to our community.
Also, if you did not get a chance to attend our informational/training sessions for serving opportunities, we are doing them again this Sunday, December 28th 9:15 am. To get to the rooms, go down the east stairwell, turn left and walk towards the preschool desk - we are in the set of rooms to the right of the desk. Here is the breakout of rooms:
Hospitality (Ushers, Greeters, Emergency Response, Follow Up) → Meet with Jim Daum in Room 129
Children's Ministry – Nursery and Preschool → Meet with Karyn Chastain in Room 125
Children's Ministry - Kindergarten through 5th Grade → Meet with Ace Chambers in Room 127
Student Ministry → Meet with Chip Bruce in Room 128
Worship / Technology →Meet with Megan Eastland in Room 126
Also, if you did not get a chance to attend our informational/training sessions for serving opportunities, we are doing them again this Sunday, December 28th 9:15 am. To get to the rooms, go down the east stairwell, turn left and walk towards the preschool desk - we are in the set of rooms to the right of the desk. Here is the breakout of rooms:
Hospitality (Ushers, Greeters, Emergency Response, Follow Up) → Meet with Jim Daum in Room 129
Children's Ministry – Nursery and Preschool → Meet with Karyn Chastain in Room 125
Children's Ministry - Kindergarten through 5th Grade → Meet with Ace Chambers in Room 127
Student Ministry → Meet with Chip Bruce in Room 128
Worship / Technology →Meet with Megan Eastland in Room 126
Monday, December 15, 2008
1st Service Completed!!
What a great time we had on Sunday! God was so gracious during our worship time together in the Student Center on Sunday. Although there were some sound difficulties during rehearsals, everything went very well during our service!
I was so excited about our time together, that I was blazing through the announcements and introductions so fast that Ace commented that I almost reached 'auctioneer status'. LOL!
All in all, the worship time in music was fantastic. Megan lead truly from a worshipful heart. The band sounded great together and you could see the joy of music on their faces. The ushers and greeters did a great job of welcoming people and helping out with the offering as well. The tech team did a fabulous job working on the sound and video for the space. Merle gave an incredible sermon about the incarnation of Christ - Christ dwelling among us - that was powerful and insightful into God's grace and His love for us. Great stuff!!
I can't wait for next week! I look forward to seeing you there!! - same bat time - same bat channel - 11 am Student Center at the Liberty Campus.
I was so excited about our time together, that I was blazing through the announcements and introductions so fast that Ace commented that I almost reached 'auctioneer status'. LOL!
All in all, the worship time in music was fantastic. Megan lead truly from a worshipful heart. The band sounded great together and you could see the joy of music on their faces. The ushers and greeters did a great job of welcoming people and helping out with the offering as well. The tech team did a fabulous job working on the sound and video for the space. Merle gave an incredible sermon about the incarnation of Christ - Christ dwelling among us - that was powerful and insightful into God's grace and His love for us. Great stuff!!
I can't wait for next week! I look forward to seeing you there!! - same bat time - same bat channel - 11 am Student Center at the Liberty Campus.
Saturday, December 13, 2008
Do you have what it takes to be a Youth Worker?
When I talk to people about working in Youth Ministry, I am often told, "I don't know if I have what it takes." Since I am not sure if I have ever seen this topic addressed, I did some research and this is what I found out about the common characteristics possessed by most youth workers. All of them:
--Loved God, and
--Liked Students
That was it. I guess if you throw in, "Have a Pulse," then that would be a third characteristic. The list is not very long and maybe this describes you?
I believe everyone wants to have a dynamic youth ministry, but the dynamic part comes through those who serve in the ministry. If this describes you, I would love to talk to you about the possibility of serving in a spot on the Youth Ministry Team. You never know, serving youth may give you your pulse back!
--Loved God, and
--Liked Students
That was it. I guess if you throw in, "Have a Pulse," then that would be a third characteristic. The list is not very long and maybe this describes you?
I believe everyone wants to have a dynamic youth ministry, but the dynamic part comes through those who serve in the ministry. If this describes you, I would love to talk to you about the possibility of serving in a spot on the Youth Ministry Team. You never know, serving youth may give you your pulse back!
Monday, December 8, 2008
December 14th - First Service at Liberty Campus!!
Woah - it's been a week since I've posted. I'm letting myself get too busy! :-)
This coming Sunday is our first service at the Liberty campus! Woohoo! It's finally here!
We will be meeting at 11:00 am in the Student Center.
I am very excited about our opportunity to worship together!! It will be a lot of fun. Megan Eastland will be leading us in worship. I hope you had a chance to see her this past weekend in the services.
I look forward to seeing you there!!
This coming Sunday is our first service at the Liberty campus! Woohoo! It's finally here!
We will be meeting at 11:00 am in the Student Center.
I am very excited about our opportunity to worship together!! It will be a lot of fun. Megan Eastland will be leading us in worship. I hope you had a chance to see her this past weekend in the services.
I look forward to seeing you there!!
Monday, December 1, 2008
Official Campus Name
Some of the questions that I received yesterday revolved around, "What is the name of the church?" Good question, time to clarify . . . .
We decided to keep the name, Pleasant Valley Baptist Church, of which there is great name recognition and community involvment. This became very clear to me as I had visited many different regional and multi-site campus across Kansas City. I had attended Colonial Presbyterian's Quivera Campus way down south KC. While there, I realized that although Colonial Pres. does not have a huge awareness north of the river (their own admission), PV was well known that far south of the river. Therefore, Platte City would have just as much knowledge of PV. While encouraging as this might be, it was also daunting, keeping up with such a great and wonderful reputation for being a part of the community.
The next question involved campus naming. As with other multi-sites who utilize a "_____ Campus" strategy, we wrestled with different names for the campus. The one that stuck the most was 'KCI' due to location AND prominence with the community. Even the news names the airport 'KCI' (when the actually airport designation is MCI). Therefore, the name of the location is:
Pleasant Valley Baptist Church - KCI Campus
We decided to keep the name, Pleasant Valley Baptist Church, of which there is great name recognition and community involvment. This became very clear to me as I had visited many different regional and multi-site campus across Kansas City. I had attended Colonial Presbyterian's Quivera Campus way down south KC. While there, I realized that although Colonial Pres. does not have a huge awareness north of the river (their own admission), PV was well known that far south of the river. Therefore, Platte City would have just as much knowledge of PV. While encouraging as this might be, it was also daunting, keeping up with such a great and wonderful reputation for being a part of the community.
The next question involved campus naming. As with other multi-sites who utilize a "_____ Campus" strategy, we wrestled with different names for the campus. The one that stuck the most was 'KCI' due to location AND prominence with the community. Even the news names the airport 'KCI' (when the actually airport designation is MCI). Therefore, the name of the location is:
Pleasant Valley Baptist Church - KCI Campus
Sunday, November 30, 2008
Chapter 3 - A Soft Place to Fall
Yes - I am behind on my posts and comments. Now that I have unpacked my book from moving offices, I am committed to finishing this book. And what a great book this is!!!
This chapter can be summed up on p.36 -
"In one incredible moment [story of Jesus and the woman caught in adultery], Jesus brought together all that God is in his holiness and all that we could be in his grace. When we experience that same mercy from him, we too will be as soft a place for poeple to fall as Jesus was."
Am I a safe place for people to fall? Boy, I sure hope so. This is such an important point for it is the crux of how we relate to people - r we judgmental? r we selfishly protective of ourselves? do we look to our own interests? r we truly transparent with others? r we vulnerable to others?
Only then are we able to connect as a safe haven for people to trust.
p.37 - "Learning to deal with our past is critical to maintaining our friendships and opening up to new ones. Forgiveness and acceptance are the detergents of body life that allow us to live free of the past"
I have to let go of the hurt of my past and deal with it in order to stand alongside others. Interestingly, this is a process, but a journey not taken alone. Forgiveness has been granted to me and therefore I should be able to share it with others.
p.39 - great clarification statement worth mentioning:
"Forgiving and accepting others simply means that we won't hold them accountable to us for their failures but will continue to respond to them with love and grace . . .
We can forgive someone who is abusive without continuing to subject ourselves to that abuse. And our forgiveness does not mean that we should keep silent if that person seeks to hurt others. Nor does our forgivenss absolve people of their responsibility, only of their accountability to us."
How many times do we think that to forgive someone is to let them walk all over us? AND that thought keeps us from forgiveness? I know that I have been guilty of that in the past. But when I truly forgave and let God handle the rest. I walked in knowledge of that hurt as to not be hurt again (i.e. put myself in that position again), but didn't focus on the pain. And God took care of the rest.
p.40-41 - good clarification on the difference between Forgiveness and Reconciliation.
p. 41 - "For the body of Christ to stay relationally healthy, we will need to jump freely and often into the waters of forgiveness"
The word that struck me here was 'often'. Often implies (correctly) that it is a frequent reoccuring action. The opportunity to forgive comes up 'often' and we should do so. From forgiveness flows the water of reconciliation and healing. What great and powerful teaching from the Bible!!
p.43 - the Ministry of Presence
Boy, just being available to so key. I encourage others to do the same - don't worry about what to say, and sometimes don't say anything at all. Just be there, be available.
This chapter can be summed up on p.36 -
"In one incredible moment [story of Jesus and the woman caught in adultery], Jesus brought together all that God is in his holiness and all that we could be in his grace. When we experience that same mercy from him, we too will be as soft a place for poeple to fall as Jesus was."
Am I a safe place for people to fall? Boy, I sure hope so. This is such an important point for it is the crux of how we relate to people - r we judgmental? r we selfishly protective of ourselves? do we look to our own interests? r we truly transparent with others? r we vulnerable to others?
Only then are we able to connect as a safe haven for people to trust.
p.37 - "Learning to deal with our past is critical to maintaining our friendships and opening up to new ones. Forgiveness and acceptance are the detergents of body life that allow us to live free of the past"
I have to let go of the hurt of my past and deal with it in order to stand alongside others. Interestingly, this is a process, but a journey not taken alone. Forgiveness has been granted to me and therefore I should be able to share it with others.
p.39 - great clarification statement worth mentioning:
"Forgiving and accepting others simply means that we won't hold them accountable to us for their failures but will continue to respond to them with love and grace . . .
We can forgive someone who is abusive without continuing to subject ourselves to that abuse. And our forgiveness does not mean that we should keep silent if that person seeks to hurt others. Nor does our forgivenss absolve people of their responsibility, only of their accountability to us."
How many times do we think that to forgive someone is to let them walk all over us? AND that thought keeps us from forgiveness? I know that I have been guilty of that in the past. But when I truly forgave and let God handle the rest. I walked in knowledge of that hurt as to not be hurt again (i.e. put myself in that position again), but didn't focus on the pain. And God took care of the rest.
p.40-41 - good clarification on the difference between Forgiveness and Reconciliation.
p. 41 - "For the body of Christ to stay relationally healthy, we will need to jump freely and often into the waters of forgiveness"
The word that struck me here was 'often'. Often implies (correctly) that it is a frequent reoccuring action. The opportunity to forgive comes up 'often' and we should do so. From forgiveness flows the water of reconciliation and healing. What great and powerful teaching from the Bible!!
p.43 - the Ministry of Presence
Boy, just being available to so key. I encourage others to do the same - don't worry about what to say, and sometimes don't say anything at all. Just be there, be available.
Chapter 2 - Loving Others like God loves you
Okay, so I like totally remember that we discussed this at Caribou, but I wanted to add some of those points to the blog.
Loved the quote:
"To love another person is to see the face of God" - Les Miserables
p. 27 - "Jesus frees us to demonstrate love in the moment for whoever is before us. We will never learn to love others, if we don't do it one at a time"
Man! I have been so guilty of looking at the 'biggest bang for the buck'. In other words, how can I effect the most amount of people in the shortest amount of time. When truly, one at a time is the key! We cannot microwave maturity.
p.29 - "Perhaps the greatest freedom of one anothering is the freedom God gives us not to be focused on ourselves all the time"
Whew - no more navel gazing here!
p.29 - "But is is sad that we find more enjoyment in watching [reality tv] people in contrived circumstances than we do in engaging in the fascinating stories going on in our own neighborhoods, workplaces, and congregations, where amazing heroes are doing the right thing against incredible odds."
Watching television has replaced our seeking to be involved in people's stories. I know flocking to the tube creates a sense that I won't get hurt, a false perception (or intimacy). Shame on me.
p. 29 - "We cannot do for others what hasn't already been done for us"
I must experience and accept God's forgiveness, service, and kindness, if I am to be able to do for others.
p. 30 - "He wants to set you so free in his love that it spills out of you and touches others"
Sweet. Use me Lord.
p.31 - "Relationships are organic, and as such they develop best when an outside regimen is not imposed on them."
Relationships are messy and do not subscribe to a certain formula, program, or pattern. Living life together is more important than the next or lastest or greatest new church growth strategy. We want things now, rather than work for the long haul . . .
Loved the quote:
"To love another person is to see the face of God" - Les Miserables
p. 27 - "Jesus frees us to demonstrate love in the moment for whoever is before us. We will never learn to love others, if we don't do it one at a time"
Man! I have been so guilty of looking at the 'biggest bang for the buck'. In other words, how can I effect the most amount of people in the shortest amount of time. When truly, one at a time is the key! We cannot microwave maturity.
p.29 - "Perhaps the greatest freedom of one anothering is the freedom God gives us not to be focused on ourselves all the time"
Whew - no more navel gazing here!
p.29 - "But is is sad that we find more enjoyment in watching [reality tv] people in contrived circumstances than we do in engaging in the fascinating stories going on in our own neighborhoods, workplaces, and congregations, where amazing heroes are doing the right thing against incredible odds."
Watching television has replaced our seeking to be involved in people's stories. I know flocking to the tube creates a sense that I won't get hurt, a false perception (or intimacy). Shame on me.
p. 29 - "We cannot do for others what hasn't already been done for us"
I must experience and accept God's forgiveness, service, and kindness, if I am to be able to do for others.
p. 30 - "He wants to set you so free in his love that it spills out of you and touches others"
Sweet. Use me Lord.
p.31 - "Relationships are organic, and as such they develop best when an outside regimen is not imposed on them."
Relationships are messy and do not subscribe to a certain formula, program, or pattern. Living life together is more important than the next or lastest or greatest new church growth strategy. We want things now, rather than work for the long haul . . .
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
KCI Campus Personnel
I wanted to take a minute to do a quick introduction of the KCI Campus staff:
Administrative Assistant – Debra Kirby
Debra comes from William Jewell of where she has been employed for the last 12 years. She has many years of experience as well as event planning and database management. Woohoo!
Nursery and Preschool Director – Karyn Chastain
Many of you already know Karyn from KCLC of which she will still continue on Tuesdays and Thursdays. We are very excited about Karyn joining us in this endeavor.
Children’s Director – Ace Chambers
Ace has been working with the Park Hill School district for the past 8 years as Adventure Club coordinator and the school’s behavior interventionist. He also worked with Northland Cathedral Childcare for seven years prior to Park Hill.
Youth Director – Chip Bruce
Chip has been volunteering at PV in Youth ministry since 2003. Before coming here, he served in the student ministry at FBC O’Fallon, MO for seven years. Recently, Chip graduated with a Master’s of Divinity from Midwestern Baptist Theological Seminary.
Worship Leader - Megan Eastland
Megan served as Director of Student Worship and Discipleship (as well as Student Discipleship Coordinator) at Westside for almost four years. She brings a wonderful heart of worship and a passion to see people connect with God. She is very talented musically and holds a Music Degree from Texas Christian University.
We are very excited about the team of individuals serving on staff at the KCI Campus! Our Lord has been very gracious in bringing such a great group of servant leaders together. Thank you so much for your prayers!!
Administrative Assistant – Debra Kirby
Debra comes from William Jewell of where she has been employed for the last 12 years. She has many years of experience as well as event planning and database management. Woohoo!
Nursery and Preschool Director – Karyn Chastain
Many of you already know Karyn from KCLC of which she will still continue on Tuesdays and Thursdays. We are very excited about Karyn joining us in this endeavor.
Children’s Director – Ace Chambers
Ace has been working with the Park Hill School district for the past 8 years as Adventure Club coordinator and the school’s behavior interventionist. He also worked with Northland Cathedral Childcare for seven years prior to Park Hill.
Youth Director – Chip Bruce
Chip has been volunteering at PV in Youth ministry since 2003. Before coming here, he served in the student ministry at FBC O’Fallon, MO for seven years. Recently, Chip graduated with a Master’s of Divinity from Midwestern Baptist Theological Seminary.
Worship Leader - Megan Eastland
Megan served as Director of Student Worship and Discipleship (as well as Student Discipleship Coordinator) at Westside for almost four years. She brings a wonderful heart of worship and a passion to see people connect with God. She is very talented musically and holds a Music Degree from Texas Christian University.
We are very excited about the team of individuals serving on staff at the KCI Campus! Our Lord has been very gracious in bringing such a great group of servant leaders together. Thank you so much for your prayers!!
Saturday, November 22, 2008
Vision Sunday Pictures
Whew! I finally got pictures to share!
Click on the link below to check out some of the pictures of Vision Sunday.
Wow! We had a blast! With over 180 people there, you could feel the excitement.
http://picasaweb.google.com/revboster/VisionSunday#5271602911134211410
Click on the link below to check out some of the pictures of Vision Sunday.
Wow! We had a blast! With over 180 people there, you could feel the excitement.
http://picasaweb.google.com/revboster/VisionSunday#5271602911134211410
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
Updated Timeline
Here is an updated of the Timeline for Worship Services:
December 14th - 11 am Worship in Student Center begins
January 4th - Worship Services at the KCI Campus begin (9 am and 10:30)
January 18th - Company is coming! :-) Open to the Community! Yeah!
What an exciting time to be at Pleasant Valley Baptist Church!
December 14th - 11 am Worship in Student Center begins
January 4th - Worship Services at the KCI Campus begin (9 am and 10:30)
January 18th - Company is coming! :-) Open to the Community! Yeah!
What an exciting time to be at Pleasant Valley Baptist Church!
Monday, November 17, 2008
Vision Sunday Remarks
Woohoo! What a great time!
We had over 180 people show up to our Vision Sunday!! Thank you so much for coming! I will have some pictures up soon of the event. What an encouraging day! Many of those who came shared wonderful stories of friends, relatives, neighbors, or co-workers they knew who have visited the Liberty Campus, but didn't want to keep making the drive, YET would be willing to come to the KCI Campus!
God is good!
For those who missed it, we started off with prayer. Todd Barton was gracious enough to get some guys together to play worship music. It was rocking!! Afterwards, Merle shared and reiterated our goal of 'bringing the church to the community. Next, I shared some vision strategy and will post my talking notes this week.
From here on out, I will be doing daily updates. I paused for a little bit to keep the 'Vision Sunday' information on the top of the blog. Hold on - because the ride is just gettin' started!!
We had over 180 people show up to our Vision Sunday!! Thank you so much for coming! I will have some pictures up soon of the event. What an encouraging day! Many of those who came shared wonderful stories of friends, relatives, neighbors, or co-workers they knew who have visited the Liberty Campus, but didn't want to keep making the drive, YET would be willing to come to the KCI Campus!
God is good!
For those who missed it, we started off with prayer. Todd Barton was gracious enough to get some guys together to play worship music. It was rocking!! Afterwards, Merle shared and reiterated our goal of 'bringing the church to the community. Next, I shared some vision strategy and will post my talking notes this week.
From here on out, I will be doing daily updates. I paused for a little bit to keep the 'Vision Sunday' information on the top of the blog. Hold on - because the ride is just gettin' started!!
Sunday, November 16, 2008
ChEeRLeAdIng Chaper 8
ENCOURAGE ON ANOTHER DAILY- heb. 3:13
COMFORT ONE ANOTHER- I thess. 4:18
STIMULATER ON ANOTHER TO LOVE AND GOOD DEEDS- heb. 10:24 (nasb)
"The best way to know what to say is to look back at your own experience. What have people said to you that made it easier to trust Jesus, and what misguided words only made Him seem farther away?"
Well- that quote about sums it up!? We learn from what has either happen to us or what didn't happen that we would of like to of! But not only the things that made us feel better but how did our faith in Christ influence our experience.
page 91- the author says, "being encouraged daily is not a luxury; it is a necessity." Seemingly our once a week gathering as a church body isn't enough; but rather the one on one relationship is where encouragement can be met at an even more indepth manner. Receiving that encouragement but we are to think of how we can help; ie- encourage; those that are around us that need a word to help them through the day.
thinking of encouragement makes me first think of an affirmation from someone or reciproctating by giving words of affirmation back. I believe there are times for that but more so it is the little purposeful acts of thoughtfullness allows people to know that we have made that special effort to encourage them. A phone call, a drop by to see them, an email to say hi, or even pat on the back can go a long way!
Comfort = 'to enable'
page 92, "Paul said that in the midst of their despair, God both comforted and delivered them."
My first thought here is that if you have to be comforted by someone you are a weak person- ok, I know that isn't very nice but I have also discovered that it isn't even the same type of comfort used in the text! as in the verse above the comforted meant to be able to enable them to endure the suffering so that they could have victory on the other side of the trouble.
"what comfort does best is to get our eyes off our efforts and our limitied resources and put them bakc on God and His power! " When our son was first born he was shipped immediately from our small town hospital to KC for immediate care for his heart. Talking about feeling useless! Several days went by without any progress on his care and at one time he almost went the other way too far. Our pastor called us and encouraged us to turn our son's life over to God and to allow Him to have control over that situation. I had never thought of this act or advise as being that of comfort until I had read this; but it certainly is. when we prayed that pray, giving our son back to the Lord to whom had created him and allowing Him the 'responsibility' of whatever was going to happen to happen- comfort soon came upon us. It was like a huge weight had been lifter from our shoulders. 2 Cor. 1:6 "If we are comforted, it is for your comfort, which produces in your patient endourance of the same suffering we suffer. " (tbc)
COMFORT ONE ANOTHER- I thess. 4:18
STIMULATER ON ANOTHER TO LOVE AND GOOD DEEDS- heb. 10:24 (nasb)
"The best way to know what to say is to look back at your own experience. What have people said to you that made it easier to trust Jesus, and what misguided words only made Him seem farther away?"
Well- that quote about sums it up!? We learn from what has either happen to us or what didn't happen that we would of like to of! But not only the things that made us feel better but how did our faith in Christ influence our experience.
page 91- the author says, "being encouraged daily is not a luxury; it is a necessity." Seemingly our once a week gathering as a church body isn't enough; but rather the one on one relationship is where encouragement can be met at an even more indepth manner. Receiving that encouragement but we are to think of how we can help; ie- encourage; those that are around us that need a word to help them through the day.
thinking of encouragement makes me first think of an affirmation from someone or reciproctating by giving words of affirmation back. I believe there are times for that but more so it is the little purposeful acts of thoughtfullness allows people to know that we have made that special effort to encourage them. A phone call, a drop by to see them, an email to say hi, or even pat on the back can go a long way!
Comfort = 'to enable'
page 92, "Paul said that in the midst of their despair, God both comforted and delivered them."
My first thought here is that if you have to be comforted by someone you are a weak person- ok, I know that isn't very nice but I have also discovered that it isn't even the same type of comfort used in the text! as in the verse above the comforted meant to be able to enable them to endure the suffering so that they could have victory on the other side of the trouble.
"what comfort does best is to get our eyes off our efforts and our limitied resources and put them bakc on God and His power! " When our son was first born he was shipped immediately from our small town hospital to KC for immediate care for his heart. Talking about feeling useless! Several days went by without any progress on his care and at one time he almost went the other way too far. Our pastor called us and encouraged us to turn our son's life over to God and to allow Him to have control over that situation. I had never thought of this act or advise as being that of comfort until I had read this; but it certainly is. when we prayed that pray, giving our son back to the Lord to whom had created him and allowing Him the 'responsibility' of whatever was going to happen to happen- comfort soon came upon us. It was like a huge weight had been lifter from our shoulders. 2 Cor. 1:6 "If we are comforted, it is for your comfort, which produces in your patient endourance of the same suffering we suffer. " (tbc)
Sunday, November 9, 2008
Chapter 7- Lightening the Load
Serve on another- Gal. 5:13
Carry each other's burdens- Gal. 6:2
Build each other up- I Thes. 5:11
Coming into the seventh chapter and just reading these excerpts from scripture makes us see the building up of learning to 'one another'. First we are to serve, rather than to be served! Second, we can unload on each other to help us with the burdens that weigh our lives down and thirdly; we need to encourage each other and lift each other up!
the quote from Albert Schweitzer is an invaluable insight: "I don't know what your destiny will be, but one thing I know; the only ones among you who will be really happy are those who will have sought and found how to serve."
The story the author shares about the couple that saw the need of a neighbor and met that need without hesitation seems like a common thing among those that are actively listening for the Holy Spirits moving. "Sharing the Journey"- together in life we must be willing to be a part of others and vice versa, allow others to be a part of us. It seems that in today's world of individuality that premise is hard to wrap our thoughts around; allowing others to do for me?!!!
The best blessings I have received is from acting on the prompting of the Holy Spirit to do (or serve) something for someone. It may of been a phone call, a 'good deed' for someone, or a variety of other 'moments' that have shown itself to be HS induced!
page 81- serve one another
Jesus washing the feet of His disciples is the ultimate example of serving one another without thought of 'position' or status.
I know that I am guilty of see a real need and telling the people, 'well, if there is anything I can do, just let me know' when in reality I have let an opportunity go to help/serve.
A friend of mine just got back from serving in Turkestan (an old part of Russia) where it is very primitive to live- almost like living in the biblical times. Not speaking much of the language communication was limited. His neighbors wife passed away and as typical in that part of the world people would come to the house to mourn. Not know what else to do, that is exactly what my friend did, sat in the court yard of the sorrowing husband and mourned the death of someone he barely knew. His obedience and action was a huge message to the man; I care.
E.W. Howe says, "when a friend is in trouble, don't annoy him by asking if there is anything you can do. Think up something appropriate and do it!"
page 82- serving from a heart of love
I don't know about you but it seems when someone finally does call for help it is the most inoperable time! After reading this section I realize that service to others is not always perfect timing- and perhaps it is a test of our attitudes! Paul tells us that serving isn't an act of slavery to be drudged but rather an opportunity for us to find JOY in Serving! "But do not use your freedom to indulge the sinful nature; rather, serve one another in love." Gal. 5:13
"serving out of obedience alone is slavery; serving with love is a joy." doing with a good attitude! seems to be the secret to a joyful life.
page 84 "Carry Each Other's Burdens"
The example the books gives is great. A guy realizes that a friend, while playing basketball was in need of someone to talk to about his business. In doing so they ended up going to God in prayer for the situation.
I had served as a deacon in our past church and my wife and I had went to the hospital to visit a dear older friend of ours that was in his last stages of cancer. We had so much respect for this man of God and we listened as he told us that it wasn't the dieing part of this illness that bothered him, but rather the way in which he would die. He told us of how he had prayed to God just to let him die in peace so that he could come on and meet him. During his hospital stay he had shared with the workers of the love of Christ and the confidence he had in his Saviour. His testimony was awesome of the love he had for Christ. It was time for us to leave and I asked him if we could pray with him. We, my wife, Bill, and I held hands and I started to pray. My emotions so over come me that I couldn't stop weeping so I gently squeezed my wife's hand to prompt her to pray, as she started the same thing happened to her. So here we are, the two of us that came to bring comfort to this man that was dieing, bawling our eyes out, so......... Bill prayed for us! Even in Bill's dieing days, he was serving- he loved, he cared for those around him, and through it all, totally trusted and was sold out for Christ. (Why were we crying? I'm not sure but for some reason there seemed to be an unworthiness about me praying for Bill! Retrospectively, I wonder if it wasn't because of being awestruck with his confidence and love he so gracefully and marvelously showed of his Savior.)
page 85- build each other up.
Edifying each other is an act of putting our focus back on Jesus.
Life pretty much sucks at times and our focus is sometimes thrown off keel. As the book mentions, edifying one another allows us to help each other take our eyes off the world and to remember who we are in Christ!
My friend that was dieing was just that type of guy. Any time you were around Bill for very long you knew who Christ was and how He was there for you! Bill had that ornate ability to remember who's we are- Christ!
Trying to build one another up with worldly adoration's doesn't do it- but to reminded of who we belong to and who we can glorify in- lives worries and struggles are just not as pressing as they once were. Having the ability to rely on God for His care for us rather than us trying to do it ourselves free us of the heavy load. Giving friends a scripture that has helped us during trying times serves well with encouraging one another. Sometimes it is sharing our own struggles that makes the experience of building one another up the most useful!
Results from building each other up isn't something that is always seen. Truthful expressions of honesty and openness in order to edify each other may take time. It is the prompting of the Holy Spirit we are following in order to build others up, let the Holy Spirit do the job in the encourager- we just need to be obedient and share with each other.
Carry each other's burdens- Gal. 6:2
Build each other up- I Thes. 5:11
Coming into the seventh chapter and just reading these excerpts from scripture makes us see the building up of learning to 'one another'. First we are to serve, rather than to be served! Second, we can unload on each other to help us with the burdens that weigh our lives down and thirdly; we need to encourage each other and lift each other up!
the quote from Albert Schweitzer is an invaluable insight: "I don't know what your destiny will be, but one thing I know; the only ones among you who will be really happy are those who will have sought and found how to serve."
The story the author shares about the couple that saw the need of a neighbor and met that need without hesitation seems like a common thing among those that are actively listening for the Holy Spirits moving. "Sharing the Journey"- together in life we must be willing to be a part of others and vice versa, allow others to be a part of us. It seems that in today's world of individuality that premise is hard to wrap our thoughts around; allowing others to do for me?!!!
The best blessings I have received is from acting on the prompting of the Holy Spirit to do (or serve) something for someone. It may of been a phone call, a 'good deed' for someone, or a variety of other 'moments' that have shown itself to be HS induced!
page 81- serve one another
Jesus washing the feet of His disciples is the ultimate example of serving one another without thought of 'position' or status.
I know that I am guilty of see a real need and telling the people, 'well, if there is anything I can do, just let me know' when in reality I have let an opportunity go to help/serve.
A friend of mine just got back from serving in Turkestan (an old part of Russia) where it is very primitive to live- almost like living in the biblical times. Not speaking much of the language communication was limited. His neighbors wife passed away and as typical in that part of the world people would come to the house to mourn. Not know what else to do, that is exactly what my friend did, sat in the court yard of the sorrowing husband and mourned the death of someone he barely knew. His obedience and action was a huge message to the man; I care.
E.W. Howe says, "when a friend is in trouble, don't annoy him by asking if there is anything you can do. Think up something appropriate and do it!"
page 82- serving from a heart of love
I don't know about you but it seems when someone finally does call for help it is the most inoperable time! After reading this section I realize that service to others is not always perfect timing- and perhaps it is a test of our attitudes! Paul tells us that serving isn't an act of slavery to be drudged but rather an opportunity for us to find JOY in Serving! "But do not use your freedom to indulge the sinful nature; rather, serve one another in love." Gal. 5:13
"serving out of obedience alone is slavery; serving with love is a joy." doing with a good attitude! seems to be the secret to a joyful life.
page 84 "Carry Each Other's Burdens"
The example the books gives is great. A guy realizes that a friend, while playing basketball was in need of someone to talk to about his business. In doing so they ended up going to God in prayer for the situation.
I had served as a deacon in our past church and my wife and I had went to the hospital to visit a dear older friend of ours that was in his last stages of cancer. We had so much respect for this man of God and we listened as he told us that it wasn't the dieing part of this illness that bothered him, but rather the way in which he would die. He told us of how he had prayed to God just to let him die in peace so that he could come on and meet him. During his hospital stay he had shared with the workers of the love of Christ and the confidence he had in his Saviour. His testimony was awesome of the love he had for Christ. It was time for us to leave and I asked him if we could pray with him. We, my wife, Bill, and I held hands and I started to pray. My emotions so over come me that I couldn't stop weeping so I gently squeezed my wife's hand to prompt her to pray, as she started the same thing happened to her. So here we are, the two of us that came to bring comfort to this man that was dieing, bawling our eyes out, so......... Bill prayed for us! Even in Bill's dieing days, he was serving- he loved, he cared for those around him, and through it all, totally trusted and was sold out for Christ. (Why were we crying? I'm not sure but for some reason there seemed to be an unworthiness about me praying for Bill! Retrospectively, I wonder if it wasn't because of being awestruck with his confidence and love he so gracefully and marvelously showed of his Savior.)
page 85- build each other up.
Edifying each other is an act of putting our focus back on Jesus.
Life pretty much sucks at times and our focus is sometimes thrown off keel. As the book mentions, edifying one another allows us to help each other take our eyes off the world and to remember who we are in Christ!
My friend that was dieing was just that type of guy. Any time you were around Bill for very long you knew who Christ was and how He was there for you! Bill had that ornate ability to remember who's we are- Christ!
Trying to build one another up with worldly adoration's doesn't do it- but to reminded of who we belong to and who we can glorify in- lives worries and struggles are just not as pressing as they once were. Having the ability to rely on God for His care for us rather than us trying to do it ourselves free us of the heavy load. Giving friends a scripture that has helped us during trying times serves well with encouraging one another. Sometimes it is sharing our own struggles that makes the experience of building one another up the most useful!
Results from building each other up isn't something that is always seen. Truthful expressions of honesty and openness in order to edify each other may take time. It is the prompting of the Holy Spirit we are following in order to build others up, let the Holy Spirit do the job in the encourager- we just need to be obedient and share with each other.
Part 3
"Having a friend to share your journey in uncertain moments and dark stretches will multiply your wisdom an dcourage greatly. We are not asked to go it alone but to enjoy the resources of others God has placed around us. "
Saturday, November 8, 2008
Chapter 6 Sharing God's Kindness!
Kindness is a way of doing what isn't able to be spoken at times.
The act of kindness was demonstrated to us by Christ- many times. In the example the book gives it shows that a very small act over time may prove to be more effective than words that hasn't been helpful and sometimes even be more harmful.
page 71- kindness in a selfish age
"Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless" Mother Theresa
I think back to my childhood and the man that was always kind and happy- his occasional but persistence of kindness made an impression on me. He was different- his kindness wasn't 'for anything' but rather it was just who he was! Later that difference helped me understand that unselfish kindness is a gift from God.
Focusing on needs of others allows us to see how we can be kind thus spreading the graciousness of Christ.
"while greeting and hospitality can open the door to relationships, acts of kindness and sharing can take them much further." It seems to be my tendency to evaluate the greeting and hospitality portion before providing the acts of kindness. That sounds awful when I spell it out but I'm thinking there is a lot of truth to that. Isn't that how we pick and choose our friends; after the greeting and hospitality deciding if we want to pursue the relationship or not; and if so then provide the kindness. ugh! that's not right! but dang it, it seems to be true!
page 72 - breaking the cycle
Some scriptures-
Eph. 4:31 "Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice"
I Thes. 5:15 "make sure that nobody pays back wrong for wrong, but always try to be kind to each other and to everyone else."
These words from scripture is not words that you would hear outside the realms of Christian circle, and perhaps disappointedly not in many Christian cirlces. It's almost a precursor to being able to be kind- get the crud out of the way so that when we do kind things they are for the right reason.
I believe it is in proverbs that says that bitterness is poison to our soul- makes sense, doesn't it!? I know I have known people that have hung on to things that has done nothing for the situation except cause more hurt and animosity- as a matter of fact I have been there! It seems that Paul is causing us to look at ourselves and rid ourselves of things that could prevent us to being the kind people that we are meant to be.
After ridding ourselves of the bitterness Paul instructs us to do what goes against what we would normally do- be kind! ikes! Being intentionally kind when our nature says to hold a grudge is a way of breaking the cycle- doing what seemingly seems contrary to our nature!
Page 73- Living in Generosity
Of all the words in the world I'm thinking that generosity would not be one that would describe me! Being able to let go of 'things' is difficult for me. The author encourages us to let go and see the needs around us as being opportunities to give to others. He also talks about our generosity being something that can never exceed the generosity of God. Being aware of opportunities to give our stuff away will help us be better prepared to be resourceful with God's gifts to us.
Page 75- You Did it for me
"More than anything else, Jesus said our acts of kindness and sharing reveal the depth of our relationship with him." The tool that we can measure our relationship with Christ is our kindness? He also states that at the end of the day we can measure our love for God by the love and kindness we show to others!
"For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me." "Whenever you did not do for one for one of the least of these, you did not do for me." per Jesus.
Our lives are a reflection of the compassion and kindness that Christ has shown us. How's your reflection? Mine is sometimes tarnished because of my humanly nature to hold grudges. It is my desire to be more keenly aware of the compassion and grace that God has bestowed upon me so that I can and will reciprocate to others those wonderful gifts.
The act of kindness was demonstrated to us by Christ- many times. In the example the book gives it shows that a very small act over time may prove to be more effective than words that hasn't been helpful and sometimes even be more harmful.
page 71- kindness in a selfish age
"Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless" Mother Theresa
I think back to my childhood and the man that was always kind and happy- his occasional but persistence of kindness made an impression on me. He was different- his kindness wasn't 'for anything' but rather it was just who he was! Later that difference helped me understand that unselfish kindness is a gift from God.
Focusing on needs of others allows us to see how we can be kind thus spreading the graciousness of Christ.
"while greeting and hospitality can open the door to relationships, acts of kindness and sharing can take them much further." It seems to be my tendency to evaluate the greeting and hospitality portion before providing the acts of kindness. That sounds awful when I spell it out but I'm thinking there is a lot of truth to that. Isn't that how we pick and choose our friends; after the greeting and hospitality deciding if we want to pursue the relationship or not; and if so then provide the kindness. ugh! that's not right! but dang it, it seems to be true!
page 72 - breaking the cycle
Some scriptures-
Eph. 4:31 "Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice"
I Thes. 5:15 "make sure that nobody pays back wrong for wrong, but always try to be kind to each other and to everyone else."
These words from scripture is not words that you would hear outside the realms of Christian circle, and perhaps disappointedly not in many Christian cirlces. It's almost a precursor to being able to be kind- get the crud out of the way so that when we do kind things they are for the right reason.
I believe it is in proverbs that says that bitterness is poison to our soul- makes sense, doesn't it!? I know I have known people that have hung on to things that has done nothing for the situation except cause more hurt and animosity- as a matter of fact I have been there! It seems that Paul is causing us to look at ourselves and rid ourselves of things that could prevent us to being the kind people that we are meant to be.
After ridding ourselves of the bitterness Paul instructs us to do what goes against what we would normally do- be kind! ikes! Being intentionally kind when our nature says to hold a grudge is a way of breaking the cycle- doing what seemingly seems contrary to our nature!
Page 73- Living in Generosity
Of all the words in the world I'm thinking that generosity would not be one that would describe me! Being able to let go of 'things' is difficult for me. The author encourages us to let go and see the needs around us as being opportunities to give to others. He also talks about our generosity being something that can never exceed the generosity of God. Being aware of opportunities to give our stuff away will help us be better prepared to be resourceful with God's gifts to us.
Page 75- You Did it for me
"More than anything else, Jesus said our acts of kindness and sharing reveal the depth of our relationship with him." The tool that we can measure our relationship with Christ is our kindness? He also states that at the end of the day we can measure our love for God by the love and kindness we show to others!
"For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me." "Whenever you did not do for one for one of the least of these, you did not do for me." per Jesus.
Our lives are a reflection of the compassion and kindness that Christ has shown us. How's your reflection? Mine is sometimes tarnished because of my humanly nature to hold grudges. It is my desire to be more keenly aware of the compassion and grace that God has bestowed upon me so that I can and will reciprocate to others those wonderful gifts.
Wednesday, October 29, 2008
Chaper 5 INITIAL CONTACT
it's TRUE IT'S TRUE! your first greeting leaves a huge impression!!!
I'm sure as you think about times that you had your first encounter with someone that had a positive, sincere greeting you may get a smile on your face or a warm fuzzy inside. I have thought about people like that and wondered if people have that same response the first time I greet someone. Some folks I know say that it isn't their 'gift' to greet as they are shy or bashful.
The author tells of the friend that made a point of learning how to greet, to be mentor by an older gentleman. I would contend that we have either 'learned' to be someone that can greet by example or not greet by example. But as the author points out it is the Christians 'way of life' to greet each other.
page 61- the author says that the beginnings of a relationship can vary from culture to culture but for all it's really starts with the sincere greeting.
Jesus engaged the conversation with a question that was out of the ordinary; catching his visitor totally off guard.
I was thinking about the way I try to greet people. I think it may depend on where I am, who I'm around and what's going on. The saying "How are you doing?" seems to be leaving the culture of today; instead you may hear, "hey" "what's up" or even a grunt! Whatever the greeting, they all seem to lean towards not being really wanting to know. BUT, I remember the first time someone greeted me with the right hand shake followed by the left hand on top of my right while looking me in the eyes and saying, "hello". That was different! It was almost as if though they really meant it!!!
It is greetings like that that gets my attention and introduces me to someone that has a concern when he/she asks me a question. Our greetings can be looked at like being the first step of ministry to those around us. We will either represent ourselves as open and accepting or closed and distant to wanting any type of relationship.
Imparting a Blessing- page 63
Although practised in the biblical times, it does seem a bit different in today's culture. I have a friend that will always ends our conversations with- 'blessings friend'. As good as I think that sounds, it sometimes bothers me- because.. . .. it's different! I wonder- can he do that! Can we 'give' blessing to each other? Undoubtedly the author has given many examples of doing that very thing- but they were biblical dudes!
Guess Who's coming to Dinner? page 64
Eating together has been a long time Baptist tradition! It was interesting that the author didn't really mention the church dinners or fellowships but rather opening one another homes to each other- any time. I relate to this, I love unplanned meals, visits, and company! As the author points out, it is the openness to allow people to see us as we are that transforms a relationship in to a true friendship. If people see your house with dishes in the sink, that's OK! really, it's ok!
Deeper Still page 65
There is nothing better than going on a mission trip for a week or two with new couples or families! When you return you will know them better than you could ever get to know them at home with our busy schedules. It's the hours together that allows to see each other for real.
I remember getting activated to Desert Storm. Our reserve unit of 50 people were united with over 1200 people to create the Fleet Hospital that we served. The initial activation was in New Jersey. We were given assignments with different people, did different activities with each other and played war together. During those initial 10 days the mask of fakiness fell off and people began seeing each other who they really were. Thus the same for any 'group' of people that get together.
Leaving Room in the Margins page 66
margins in life- "they fill up every available space with job, family responsibilities, and recreational pursuits and have nothing left in the reserve for unexpected crisis or opportunity."
WOW- the was a shot between the eyes- been there and done that- not a pretty thing! Being the social butterfly (or moose) like I am, when I book myself so tight that there is no breathing room I get frustrated and discouraged.
The author posses that we purposely pray about our schedules- what a bizarre concept! Ah, but I know that! He suggest that if we are too busy to have folks over for dinner once in a while than we might be a bit too busy!
I appreciated his thoughts about finding time with friends at the most unusual times. I enjoy asking people if they want to go to the store with me, have coffee with me, travel to see my mother with me- I just like being around people [or it could be i don't like being by myself- different subject different time!].
You Never Know.....
"Keep on loving each other as brothers. Do not forget to entertain strangers, for by so doing some people have entertained angles without knowing it" Heb. 13:1-2 That's a tough verse! I can not think of one time that I have invited a total stranger into our home for dinner. Is that like picking the guy up off the Broadway Extension Bridge to bring home for dinner?
This chapter has brought home the importance of the greeting and the hospitality of beginning are relationship. These two acts will begin a relationship quicker than any, I would imagine.
I'm sure as you think about times that you had your first encounter with someone that had a positive, sincere greeting you may get a smile on your face or a warm fuzzy inside. I have thought about people like that and wondered if people have that same response the first time I greet someone. Some folks I know say that it isn't their 'gift' to greet as they are shy or bashful.
The author tells of the friend that made a point of learning how to greet, to be mentor by an older gentleman. I would contend that we have either 'learned' to be someone that can greet by example or not greet by example. But as the author points out it is the Christians 'way of life' to greet each other.
page 61- the author says that the beginnings of a relationship can vary from culture to culture but for all it's really starts with the sincere greeting.
Jesus engaged the conversation with a question that was out of the ordinary; catching his visitor totally off guard.
I was thinking about the way I try to greet people. I think it may depend on where I am, who I'm around and what's going on. The saying "How are you doing?" seems to be leaving the culture of today; instead you may hear, "hey" "what's up" or even a grunt! Whatever the greeting, they all seem to lean towards not being really wanting to know. BUT, I remember the first time someone greeted me with the right hand shake followed by the left hand on top of my right while looking me in the eyes and saying, "hello". That was different! It was almost as if though they really meant it!!!
It is greetings like that that gets my attention and introduces me to someone that has a concern when he/she asks me a question. Our greetings can be looked at like being the first step of ministry to those around us. We will either represent ourselves as open and accepting or closed and distant to wanting any type of relationship.
Imparting a Blessing- page 63
Although practised in the biblical times, it does seem a bit different in today's culture. I have a friend that will always ends our conversations with- 'blessings friend'. As good as I think that sounds, it sometimes bothers me- because.. . .. it's different! I wonder- can he do that! Can we 'give' blessing to each other? Undoubtedly the author has given many examples of doing that very thing- but they were biblical dudes!
Guess Who's coming to Dinner? page 64
Eating together has been a long time Baptist tradition! It was interesting that the author didn't really mention the church dinners or fellowships but rather opening one another homes to each other- any time. I relate to this, I love unplanned meals, visits, and company! As the author points out, it is the openness to allow people to see us as we are that transforms a relationship in to a true friendship. If people see your house with dishes in the sink, that's OK! really, it's ok!
Deeper Still page 65
There is nothing better than going on a mission trip for a week or two with new couples or families! When you return you will know them better than you could ever get to know them at home with our busy schedules. It's the hours together that allows to see each other for real.
I remember getting activated to Desert Storm. Our reserve unit of 50 people were united with over 1200 people to create the Fleet Hospital that we served. The initial activation was in New Jersey. We were given assignments with different people, did different activities with each other and played war together. During those initial 10 days the mask of fakiness fell off and people began seeing each other who they really were. Thus the same for any 'group' of people that get together.
Leaving Room in the Margins page 66
margins in life- "they fill up every available space with job, family responsibilities, and recreational pursuits and have nothing left in the reserve for unexpected crisis or opportunity."
WOW- the was a shot between the eyes- been there and done that- not a pretty thing! Being the social butterfly (or moose) like I am, when I book myself so tight that there is no breathing room I get frustrated and discouraged.
The author posses that we purposely pray about our schedules- what a bizarre concept! Ah, but I know that! He suggest that if we are too busy to have folks over for dinner once in a while than we might be a bit too busy!
I appreciated his thoughts about finding time with friends at the most unusual times. I enjoy asking people if they want to go to the store with me, have coffee with me, travel to see my mother with me- I just like being around people [or it could be i don't like being by myself- different subject different time!].
You Never Know.....
"Keep on loving each other as brothers. Do not forget to entertain strangers, for by so doing some people have entertained angles without knowing it" Heb. 13:1-2 That's a tough verse! I can not think of one time that I have invited a total stranger into our home for dinner. Is that like picking the guy up off the Broadway Extension Bridge to bring home for dinner?
This chapter has brought home the importance of the greeting and the hospitality of beginning are relationship. These two acts will begin a relationship quicker than any, I would imagine.
PART 2- OPENING THE DOOR
"Every friend you have today was once a stranger who crossed your path. Friendships begin in simple moments offered by a warm smile, a gentle word, or a kind act. They open the way for us to discover the treasures God has place around us." quote from Authenic Relastionships
continue Chapter 4
[Allen's Post}]
page 53 Honor One Another above Yourselves;
How is it that we, as a body of believers can truly honor one another? How does that look- ? The author I thought made some good points.
In the spring of this year I went to a conference in Philly with New Life Ministries. It was interesting to learn that when God is our lives and helping us identify sin that is causing our relationship to be hindered, it isn't always pleasant. Family disruption can take place, friends can turn on you, the peace in side of ourselves is hidden by the shame and guilt that has been placed on us by Satan, and all of these things; however horrific they are, are part of process of seeing God in all of His glory. When we allow God to help us overcome the obstacles in life that keeps us from that glorifying relationship with Christ we then have a testimony for Christ's working in our lives. To many times we are still not satisfied with that and find ourselves drifting back into the darkness of the sin and lies that have befallen us before. Why? I think that the answer has to do with what the author is talking about- "honor one another above yourself'. We need to be willing to speak of the dark times in life to those around us that are going through the same things. Many times when I have traveled through the darkness I just want to get out and stay out of it but I'm thinking until I reach out to those around me, that God puts in my path, and tells them of my own dark times, they may never be released from it; nor I! Charles Swindoll says, "You can not have a testimony without a test". Well said. If our lives are perfect, like I have tried to live life, then why would I need Christ?
Christ was totally honest with people but He was perfect. He has designed us to be totally honest with people about ourselves and showing how God has created in us the peace that comes from His forgiveness and acceptance.
The 'business' of church is sometimes endangering that type of honesty and relationship because we find ourselves going through the motions of doing and saying what we have always been expected to say or do.
The authors points out on page 54 that we are consumers going to church- what does that church have to offer ME! It is so true that as long as we are consumers within the church will will NEVER- NEVER understanding what Christian community is all about! God help us to understand that and strive to meet the true needs of others!
page 53 Honor One Another above Yourselves;
How is it that we, as a body of believers can truly honor one another? How does that look- ? The author I thought made some good points.
In the spring of this year I went to a conference in Philly with New Life Ministries. It was interesting to learn that when God is our lives and helping us identify sin that is causing our relationship to be hindered, it isn't always pleasant. Family disruption can take place, friends can turn on you, the peace in side of ourselves is hidden by the shame and guilt that has been placed on us by Satan, and all of these things; however horrific they are, are part of process of seeing God in all of His glory. When we allow God to help us overcome the obstacles in life that keeps us from that glorifying relationship with Christ we then have a testimony for Christ's working in our lives. To many times we are still not satisfied with that and find ourselves drifting back into the darkness of the sin and lies that have befallen us before. Why? I think that the answer has to do with what the author is talking about- "honor one another above yourself'. We need to be willing to speak of the dark times in life to those around us that are going through the same things. Many times when I have traveled through the darkness I just want to get out and stay out of it but I'm thinking until I reach out to those around me, that God puts in my path, and tells them of my own dark times, they may never be released from it; nor I! Charles Swindoll says, "You can not have a testimony without a test". Well said. If our lives are perfect, like I have tried to live life, then why would I need Christ?
Christ was totally honest with people but He was perfect. He has designed us to be totally honest with people about ourselves and showing how God has created in us the peace that comes from His forgiveness and acceptance.
The 'business' of church is sometimes endangering that type of honesty and relationship because we find ourselves going through the motions of doing and saying what we have always been expected to say or do.
The authors points out on page 54 that we are consumers going to church- what does that church have to offer ME! It is so true that as long as we are consumers within the church will will NEVER- NEVER understanding what Christian community is all about! God help us to understand that and strive to meet the true needs of others!
Monday, October 27, 2008
Nov. 16 - Vision Sunday
Mark your calendars!
Regional Campus Vision Sunday
November 16th - 11 am at the Ambassador Building
Address: 12200 N Ambassador Drive Kansas City, MO 64163
We will be dreaming together about the regional campus and taking a tour through the space we are renting in the Ambassador building.
If you are planning on moving to the new campus - please come!!
If you are thinking about moving to the new campus - please come!!
Plus - we will have cookies and coffee!!
I would love to see you there.
Regional Campus Vision Sunday
November 16th - 11 am at the Ambassador Building
Address: 12200 N Ambassador Drive Kansas City, MO 64163
We will be dreaming together about the regional campus and taking a tour through the space we are renting in the Ambassador building.
If you are planning on moving to the new campus - please come!!
If you are thinking about moving to the new campus - please come!!
Plus - we will have cookies and coffee!!
I would love to see you there.
Pictures to Dream With
Hey Everybody! Here are some pictures of the site. Hopefully, I can comment on each section. I think I got this Picasaweb thing figured out. Click on the link below and hit slideshow. I put captions on each picture of the Regional Campus.
http://picasaweb.google.com/revboster/PVBCRegionalCampus?authkey=zstZClo6S5k#
Start Dreaming!!! This is going to be a blast!!
http://picasaweb.google.com/revboster/PVBCRegionalCampus?authkey=zstZClo6S5k#
Start Dreaming!!! This is going to be a blast!!
Friday, October 24, 2008
Chapter 4
[Allen] continuing from the last post-
page 48 "When you know that your whole life is in God's hands and that he can provide everything you need, you no longer have to fight for things at someone else's expense. You will find yourself relaxed enough to actually do that things that can bless someone else."
In the times of economy that we are having, how approriate for this statement to be talked about. Our lives doesn't revolve around the economy nor the stock market. Our life savings for our worldly posessions perhaps but when we get down to the bottom line, it is life of others that we should be most concerned about. God has promised to take care of our needs- "...Don't be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows." For me slowing down trying to do so much to take of our selfish desires would allow me more times for others. God will provide for the things I need.
at the end of the next paragraph it says, "No matter how much we may tell people we want to help, our demeanor may be screaming that we don't." Telling people, 'let's get together' really is meaningless unless we do it- and when we don't- that sends a loud message to them that we really don't care enough to make the time.
page 50 EXPECTATIONS
Christ had came to earth to live a life and to model example of life for all to see. Having the foreknowledge of the His disciples it would seem reasonible that He would chose people that would be more 'in tune' with His plan. But instead even after He had told them what was about to happen at Calvary they were still arguing who was the best and who would be reigning with him on his earthly kingdom- they didn't get it. He knew their weakness as humans and didn't expect more than they were capable of. That is a thought of comfort to me- God knows me, His expectations of me isn't higher than the ability He has given me to achieve.
What happens when we put expectations on our friends and they don't live up to them? How do we respond? "Disappointments are the surest test that you are a captive to expectations [page 51]." When I was in charge of a Sunday School Class I found myself doing this alot, having expectations of the students; which would always lead to diasters. Many times I would come away from the class being disappointed because of the expectations I had anticipated. "Expectations are resentments waiting to happen [page 50]." is exactly what was happening- I was sabotaging our relationship because of expectations that should of never been made on them.
devoted vs. committed
What a buzz word, committed? Committed to this and that, making packs, or vows to each other that many times finds ourselves not being able to follow through with. Page 51 talks about the word commitment and it wasn't used once in the New Testament! ouch! the word devoted is actually translated having kindly affection for others rather than to being committed! Relationship, rather than promises or expectations. Who are we to expect more out of others than what ourselves are unable to do. As we lose the expectations of others we allow to see them as Christ see them- our eyes are hoped to what we can do to serve them, to love them, and to be real with them.
page 48 "When you know that your whole life is in God's hands and that he can provide everything you need, you no longer have to fight for things at someone else's expense. You will find yourself relaxed enough to actually do that things that can bless someone else."
In the times of economy that we are having, how approriate for this statement to be talked about. Our lives doesn't revolve around the economy nor the stock market. Our life savings for our worldly posessions perhaps but when we get down to the bottom line, it is life of others that we should be most concerned about. God has promised to take care of our needs- "...Don't be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows." For me slowing down trying to do so much to take of our selfish desires would allow me more times for others. God will provide for the things I need.
at the end of the next paragraph it says, "No matter how much we may tell people we want to help, our demeanor may be screaming that we don't." Telling people, 'let's get together' really is meaningless unless we do it- and when we don't- that sends a loud message to them that we really don't care enough to make the time.
page 50 EXPECTATIONS
Christ had came to earth to live a life and to model example of life for all to see. Having the foreknowledge of the His disciples it would seem reasonible that He would chose people that would be more 'in tune' with His plan. But instead even after He had told them what was about to happen at Calvary they were still arguing who was the best and who would be reigning with him on his earthly kingdom- they didn't get it. He knew their weakness as humans and didn't expect more than they were capable of. That is a thought of comfort to me- God knows me, His expectations of me isn't higher than the ability He has given me to achieve.
What happens when we put expectations on our friends and they don't live up to them? How do we respond? "Disappointments are the surest test that you are a captive to expectations [page 51]." When I was in charge of a Sunday School Class I found myself doing this alot, having expectations of the students; which would always lead to diasters. Many times I would come away from the class being disappointed because of the expectations I had anticipated. "Expectations are resentments waiting to happen [page 50]." is exactly what was happening- I was sabotaging our relationship because of expectations that should of never been made on them.
devoted vs. committed
What a buzz word, committed? Committed to this and that, making packs, or vows to each other that many times finds ourselves not being able to follow through with. Page 51 talks about the word commitment and it wasn't used once in the New Testament! ouch! the word devoted is actually translated having kindly affection for others rather than to being committed! Relationship, rather than promises or expectations. Who are we to expect more out of others than what ourselves are unable to do. As we lose the expectations of others we allow to see them as Christ see them- our eyes are hoped to what we can do to serve them, to love them, and to be real with them.
Wednesday, October 22, 2008
Vid Preachin'
The Regional Campus will have live music and primarilly video preaching. The sermons will not be simulcast / satellite broadcasted (holy smokes! you would not believe how expensive that is!). The sermons will be in fact a DVD of the previous weeks sermon, in other words, a week delay.
I have received some comments and questions in relation to 'satellite' preaching or showing sermons on DVD. Hopefully, I can explain clearly . . . or maybe not :-)
"Why video preaching? If live music is important, then why not live preaching?"
This truly revolves around good stewardship of resources. With a teaching team, the sermon preparation is not as taxing on any one individual. It becomes a shared opportunity. Vernon and Merle do a wonderful job with this currently. PLUS, those shared resources then free me up to oversee groups and spend more focused time leading the Regional Campus ministry team.
"But Stephen, I've heard you preach. How come you are not going to be preaching?"
During special events, vision casting, and periodically during the year, I will be sharing with the teaching team.
"A week delay. Won't that seem like 'leftovers'?"
Actually, with multi-site across the nation, many of them do a week delay. This allows editing time (if need be), plus prep time for the next week (make sure the copies work, etc). Many of the other multi-sites stated that this was a major question, but as things started, no one noticed or were concerned about it.
"I don't know if I would connect with video"
Good statement. I do not know for each person individually, but in talking with KC multi-site campus pastors, all of them stated that really became a non-issue PLUS many like having the video. The important thing about connectivity relies upon the campus pastor - my role. As I share openings and closings with the congregation, I hope to share our heart and passion for people and God's desire for them. Connectivity will also be an important part of everyone at the Regional Campus. Realistically, every member is a missionary to the community, and it will be up to all of us to connect with our 'company' from the community.
I hope that you will see that having Video will be fun. If you are not for sure, I recommend that you just try it out for 4-6 weeks and please let me know. I would love to hear from you.
I have received some comments and questions in relation to 'satellite' preaching or showing sermons on DVD. Hopefully, I can explain clearly . . . or maybe not :-)
"Why video preaching? If live music is important, then why not live preaching?"
This truly revolves around good stewardship of resources. With a teaching team, the sermon preparation is not as taxing on any one individual. It becomes a shared opportunity. Vernon and Merle do a wonderful job with this currently. PLUS, those shared resources then free me up to oversee groups and spend more focused time leading the Regional Campus ministry team.
"But Stephen, I've heard you preach. How come you are not going to be preaching?"
During special events, vision casting, and periodically during the year, I will be sharing with the teaching team.
"A week delay. Won't that seem like 'leftovers'?"
Actually, with multi-site across the nation, many of them do a week delay. This allows editing time (if need be), plus prep time for the next week (make sure the copies work, etc). Many of the other multi-sites stated that this was a major question, but as things started, no one noticed or were concerned about it.
"I don't know if I would connect with video"
Good statement. I do not know for each person individually, but in talking with KC multi-site campus pastors, all of them stated that really became a non-issue PLUS many like having the video. The important thing about connectivity relies upon the campus pastor - my role. As I share openings and closings with the congregation, I hope to share our heart and passion for people and God's desire for them. Connectivity will also be an important part of everyone at the Regional Campus. Realistically, every member is a missionary to the community, and it will be up to all of us to connect with our 'company' from the community.
I hope that you will see that having Video will be fun. If you are not for sure, I recommend that you just try it out for 4-6 weeks and please let me know. I would love to hear from you.
Sunday, October 19, 2008
Timeline
I receive several questions today concerning timeline in launching the Regional Campus. I thought I'd create a specific entry concerning timing and some prayer requests as well.
November - Fall Inhouse Venue Launch
- We will begin worshipping together in the Student Center at 11 am, getting to know each other and celebrate together what God is doing.
- this is continengent upon having a worship leader and team in place. We had hoped to have someone in place by this time. We are still reviewing potential worship leaders.
- PRAYER - please be praying that God would reveal the right person for this role. We hope to find someone who is not only talented musically, but also understands worship. This individual has a passion for God and is pursuing Him.
January 4th - Move Inhouse Venue to Ambassodor Bulding
- We will move the Inhouse Venue and begin worshipping together at the new location. Complete with Children's ministry and Community Groups.
- We will work and serve together in prepping for two weeks for 'Company'. As we are an outreach to the Platte Co. community, we will be getting ready for our Grand Opening on Jan. 18th.
- PRAYER - that we connect with those wanting to serve and get everyone plugged in December to be ready by Jan 4th. Plus, we begin to interact with our neighbors, friends, relatives, coworkers, etc and invite them to worship with us Jan. 18th.
January 18th - GRAND OPENING - Company coming!!! :-)
- Woohoo! We open our doors to the commuity. What a fabulous time that will be!!
- PRAYER - that God will be glofifird and honored throughout the whole process and we have a great celebration on Jan. 18th. Also, that we see people come to know Christ as their Lord and Savior!
November - Fall Inhouse Venue Launch
- We will begin worshipping together in the Student Center at 11 am, getting to know each other and celebrate together what God is doing.
- this is continengent upon having a worship leader and team in place. We had hoped to have someone in place by this time. We are still reviewing potential worship leaders.
- PRAYER - please be praying that God would reveal the right person for this role. We hope to find someone who is not only talented musically, but also understands worship. This individual has a passion for God and is pursuing Him.
January 4th - Move Inhouse Venue to Ambassodor Bulding
- We will move the Inhouse Venue and begin worshipping together at the new location. Complete with Children's ministry and Community Groups.
- We will work and serve together in prepping for two weeks for 'Company'. As we are an outreach to the Platte Co. community, we will be getting ready for our Grand Opening on Jan. 18th.
- PRAYER - that we connect with those wanting to serve and get everyone plugged in December to be ready by Jan 4th. Plus, we begin to interact with our neighbors, friends, relatives, coworkers, etc and invite them to worship with us Jan. 18th.
January 18th - GRAND OPENING - Company coming!!! :-)
- Woohoo! We open our doors to the commuity. What a fabulous time that will be!!
- PRAYER - that God will be glofifird and honored throughout the whole process and we have a great celebration on Jan. 18th. Also, that we see people come to know Christ as their Lord and Savior!
Three Big Rocks
Every building needs a plan - a foundation to build upon. Our primary foundation is Jesus Christ our Lord, who not only is our foundation but also the 'Capstone' that holds it all together (Psalm 118:22, Matt 21:42, Mark 12:10, 1 Peter 2:7).
Therefore, building upon the Solid Rock of our salvation, there are 3 big rocks we are building together at the regional campus -
1. An inviting Worship Experience
2. An exciting Children's Experience
3. An engaging Community Group Experience
Worship Experience
- We will have two worship services. Tentatively, we are approximating 9 am and 10:30 worship times. There may be some unforseen items that come up that may disrupt those times, but that is what we are shooting for.
Children's Experience
- During the two worship times, we will have children's ministry from babies through fifth grade. At kindergarten through 5th grade, we will have opportunities for the families to choose one hour (either 9 or 10:30 am) and worship with their parents the other hour. This will allow the parents to serve that hour and worship the other hour.
- Babies and Preschool will run both hours for parents. This will help the parents also serve one hour and worship the other hour.
- Our goal is to provide an exciting experience for the kids with music, video, and group interaction. We are looking at a couple of curriculum options now - that look like a lot of fun!! - Can I skip the sermon and go watch the kids stuff? :-)
Community Groups
- This is very cool stuff! Working alongside Tim Overby (Associate Pastor of Group Life), we are creating community groups for adults and youth. These groups can meet anywhere, not just in a home, but community areas such as restaurants, coffee shops, community centers. The groups will have a certain DNA that flows through each (Sharing the Word, Missions and service projects together, Social Activities) - doing life together. This is a critical element for adults and youth to feel connected.
- We are also hoping of creating a worship time for youth as well. Music and dance - er - uh - I mean Music and Praise time!! We are baptist! :-) More on youth stuff soon - it will be uber cool!
All that we do at the regional campus will be built upon these three rocks. In attempts to keeping things simple and focused, all that we do we build upon these three areas: worship, children, and groups. Missions, outreach, evangelism, service, socials, etc will outflow from these three.
Therefore, building upon the Solid Rock of our salvation, there are 3 big rocks we are building together at the regional campus -
1. An inviting Worship Experience
2. An exciting Children's Experience
3. An engaging Community Group Experience
Worship Experience
- We will have two worship services. Tentatively, we are approximating 9 am and 10:30 worship times. There may be some unforseen items that come up that may disrupt those times, but that is what we are shooting for.
Children's Experience
- During the two worship times, we will have children's ministry from babies through fifth grade. At kindergarten through 5th grade, we will have opportunities for the families to choose one hour (either 9 or 10:30 am) and worship with their parents the other hour. This will allow the parents to serve that hour and worship the other hour.
- Babies and Preschool will run both hours for parents. This will help the parents also serve one hour and worship the other hour.
- Our goal is to provide an exciting experience for the kids with music, video, and group interaction. We are looking at a couple of curriculum options now - that look like a lot of fun!! - Can I skip the sermon and go watch the kids stuff? :-)
Community Groups
- This is very cool stuff! Working alongside Tim Overby (Associate Pastor of Group Life), we are creating community groups for adults and youth. These groups can meet anywhere, not just in a home, but community areas such as restaurants, coffee shops, community centers. The groups will have a certain DNA that flows through each (Sharing the Word, Missions and service projects together, Social Activities) - doing life together. This is a critical element for adults and youth to feel connected.
- We are also hoping of creating a worship time for youth as well. Music and dance - er - uh - I mean Music and Praise time!! We are baptist! :-) More on youth stuff soon - it will be uber cool!
All that we do at the regional campus will be built upon these three rocks. In attempts to keeping things simple and focused, all that we do we build upon these three areas: worship, children, and groups. Missions, outreach, evangelism, service, socials, etc will outflow from these three.
Monday, October 13, 2008
Preface and Chapter 1
Here are Allen's Comments along with mine - in [ ] brackets
In the preface a statement caught my attention:
"If you have ever hungered for deeper relationships with other believers, perhaps you are ready to realize the difference between going to church and being the church"
That is a huge statement! going and being?
[ holy cow! that was a good statement - i was struck by how often we think that going and completing the task or fulfilling the duty is what constitutes church. 'being' is a great definition/word/illustration. I was listening to the new 'downhere' CD in which one of the songs is about that we are a 'Cathedral of People - not a building seen by human eyes'. It reminded me of 2 Cor 3:2-3 - we are living letters written on hearts]
pg 16 ..... many of us protect ourselves from the kind of friendships that connect us deeply with others.
[ i also marked this passage. I found it interesting that he remarks it is b/c of pain from past experiences and we end up conflicted. Good stuff]
pg 17 healthy relationships......are created by capturing Jesus' heart for life-changing relationships -
[I marked this too! How much have we captured Jesus' heart? I wish I have captured more.]
Story of Zacchaeus made me think of people we had went to church with at Northland. There was a couple that was unusual and thought of that way by most. they wanted to have lunch with us but we always found a reason not to. Looking back I wonder if we had missed out a blessing.
pg 18- ...... people who say they love you but only so long as you benefit them.
[Yep - sucks doesn't it. I wrote in my book on this point: Could this be an issue for a 'needs' based church approach? This continued on pg 19 where we have to move beyond task oriented relationships. I was struck by this. how many relationships do I have that are task oriented. I'm only in a relationship with them b/c it revolves around a task. AND how am I treating those in whom I don't have a task relationship?]
pg 19 .....we can escape the trap only by living the way Jesus did, not trying to get love for ourselves, but learning how to share it with others.
Discussion questions:
1> Think of one of the most significant relationships you have had in your life other than immediate family. Share about that person briefly and tell what made the relationship so special. Lloyd- my dad's cousin- he accepted me as I was. after a time of being together trust was built and being able to talk about anything was nature.
[Mike Hayes - he helped me understand what a prayer relationship with Jesus is all about and that I could talk about anything, especially beyond 'churchy' talk.]
2> think of one incident in that relationship that illustrates what you valued most about that person. what about friendship did you learn from the incident? he allowed me to have the feelings I did withouth judging me, rather he tried to influence me in ways that helped me see things the way Christ would see them. I learned that he cared enough about me to help me see life through the eyes of Christ.
[I grew to be able share aspects of my life not only with Christ but also as open confession or expression before brothers in Christ]
3> Make a list from these stories that defines what your group has already learned about the attributes of friendship. acceptance, listening, honesty,
[oooh - totally agree on the acceptance one. especially when hearing tough things. Integrity was another.]
4> How does this list relect the ways God has expressed his love to you? Which of these would you like to see in your relationships with other believers as well? God is willing to accept me with all my junk, He listens to my plies for forgiveness, and He honestly tells me the things I need to hear about life. Certainly I would like to have my believing friends to be the same way- and vise versus! I need to be accepting, listen, and be honest.
[absolutely agree! I will comment on this in the next chapter]
Hope you weekend with the outdoor enthusist(sp?) went well! I'm be excited to hear about it! Did we talk about getting together this week? [Great time - a little rainy.We did not talk about getting together. What does your schedule look like right now? Are Wed mornings good?PLUS - we have kittens now - 2 of them 'Simba' and 'Cleo' short for cleopatra.]
Have a great week brother.
In the preface a statement caught my attention:
"If you have ever hungered for deeper relationships with other believers, perhaps you are ready to realize the difference between going to church and being the church"
That is a huge statement! going and being?
[ holy cow! that was a good statement - i was struck by how often we think that going and completing the task or fulfilling the duty is what constitutes church. 'being' is a great definition/word/illustration. I was listening to the new 'downhere' CD in which one of the songs is about that we are a 'Cathedral of People - not a building seen by human eyes'. It reminded me of 2 Cor 3:2-3 - we are living letters written on hearts]
pg 16 ..... many of us protect ourselves from the kind of friendships that connect us deeply with others.
[ i also marked this passage. I found it interesting that he remarks it is b/c of pain from past experiences and we end up conflicted. Good stuff]
pg 17 healthy relationships......are created by capturing Jesus' heart for life-changing relationships -
[I marked this too! How much have we captured Jesus' heart? I wish I have captured more.]
Story of Zacchaeus made me think of people we had went to church with at Northland. There was a couple that was unusual and thought of that way by most. they wanted to have lunch with us but we always found a reason not to. Looking back I wonder if we had missed out a blessing.
pg 18- ...... people who say they love you but only so long as you benefit them.
[Yep - sucks doesn't it. I wrote in my book on this point: Could this be an issue for a 'needs' based church approach? This continued on pg 19 where we have to move beyond task oriented relationships. I was struck by this. how many relationships do I have that are task oriented. I'm only in a relationship with them b/c it revolves around a task. AND how am I treating those in whom I don't have a task relationship?]
pg 19 .....we can escape the trap only by living the way Jesus did, not trying to get love for ourselves, but learning how to share it with others.
Discussion questions:
1> Think of one of the most significant relationships you have had in your life other than immediate family. Share about that person briefly and tell what made the relationship so special. Lloyd- my dad's cousin- he accepted me as I was. after a time of being together trust was built and being able to talk about anything was nature.
[Mike Hayes - he helped me understand what a prayer relationship with Jesus is all about and that I could talk about anything, especially beyond 'churchy' talk.]
2> think of one incident in that relationship that illustrates what you valued most about that person. what about friendship did you learn from the incident? he allowed me to have the feelings I did withouth judging me, rather he tried to influence me in ways that helped me see things the way Christ would see them. I learned that he cared enough about me to help me see life through the eyes of Christ.
[I grew to be able share aspects of my life not only with Christ but also as open confession or expression before brothers in Christ]
3> Make a list from these stories that defines what your group has already learned about the attributes of friendship. acceptance, listening, honesty,
[oooh - totally agree on the acceptance one. especially when hearing tough things. Integrity was another.]
4> How does this list relect the ways God has expressed his love to you? Which of these would you like to see in your relationships with other believers as well? God is willing to accept me with all my junk, He listens to my plies for forgiveness, and He honestly tells me the things I need to hear about life. Certainly I would like to have my believing friends to be the same way- and vise versus! I need to be accepting, listen, and be honest.
[absolutely agree! I will comment on this in the next chapter]
Hope you weekend with the outdoor enthusist(sp?) went well! I'm be excited to hear about it! Did we talk about getting together this week? [Great time - a little rainy.We did not talk about getting together. What does your schedule look like right now? Are Wed mornings good?PLUS - we have kittens now - 2 of them 'Simba' and 'Cleo' short for cleopatra.]
Have a great week brother.
Thursday, October 9, 2008
What is a Regional Campus for PVBC?
Great question! Keep them coming!
The PVBC Regional Campus is an extension of the work of Pleasant Valley Baptist Church. Think a church plant (starting a new church), but in strategic partnership with another church. In other words, a 'branch office' of the Liberty Campus.
We will have two worship services to begin. We are asking our members to Worship one hour and Serve the other hour. The services will be similar to the 11 am worship time at the Liberty Campus.
During services, we will have Children's ministry for:
Infants (Babies and one year olds),
2-3 year olds,
4-5 year olds,
Kindergarten through 5th grade (attend one hour and worship the other with family)
We will also have a Youth Ministry (6th grade thru 8th grade, and 9th grade thru 12th grade).
Soo, imagine Pleasant Valley Baptist Church - Liberty Campus, BUT on a smaller scale. :-)
The PVBC Regional Campus is an extension of the work of Pleasant Valley Baptist Church. Think a church plant (starting a new church), but in strategic partnership with another church. In other words, a 'branch office' of the Liberty Campus.
We will have two worship services to begin. We are asking our members to Worship one hour and Serve the other hour. The services will be similar to the 11 am worship time at the Liberty Campus.
During services, we will have Children's ministry for:
Infants (Babies and one year olds),
2-3 year olds,
4-5 year olds,
Kindergarten through 5th grade (attend one hour and worship the other with family)
We will also have a Youth Ministry (6th grade thru 8th grade, and 9th grade thru 12th grade).
Soo, imagine Pleasant Valley Baptist Church - Liberty Campus, BUT on a smaller scale. :-)
Wednesday, October 8, 2008
Location, Location, Location
Many folks have been asking, 'Stephen, where is the new campus located?'
My response has been one of the following or a combination:
- You know the old 'new' Farmland building.
Yep - right there on the first floor.
- I-29 and 435 - the KCI airport exit - take the exit (I believe it is Exit 13) and turn right at the light, the site is on the first floor of the big building to the left
- It's in the Ambassador Building near KCI airport, yes the building previously known as the Farmland building (as opposed to the artist previously known as prince)
Physical Address:
12200 N Ambassador Drive
Kansas City, MO 64163
The first picture is a look at the main entrance to the building. The picture to the right is a picture of the building.
We will start moving into the space in November and beginning of December. Gettting everything ready for a January launch.
Prayer:
Please be praying for
1. smooth transition into the new space
2. our furnishings and supplies get shipped in one piece
3. our technology installations go smoothly
4. protection from Satan and his interruptions
5. that it will be a welcoming place for people and the community
6. just because I wanted a sixth line (heehee) - that we have FUN!
7. That Christ will be glorified through this whole process and people will get to know Him as Lord and Savior
Welcome!
Thank you so much for taking the time to catch up on the lastest happenings with Pleasant Valley Baptist Church's first regional campus. I am soooo excited about this opportunity for our people. Statistics from the past 40 years show consistently that more and more people come to know Christ through the starting of new churches than any other time in a church's lifespan. What an incredible opportunity! In line with our vision of "connecting people with God and others", this endeavor will truly be an opportunity to reach the Platte County community and share the love of Christ. Sweet! I hope that you can join us. It's gonna be a wild ride!
Tuesday, April 29, 2008
Seeking God
I had the privilege and opportunity to share with our staff at Pleasant Valley Baptist Church (www.pleasantvalley.org ) during our prayer meeting time. Lately, in my quiet times, I have been learning from God about seeking Him in ministry. In other words, not letting ministry be my focus (wrapped up in administration, delegation, service, work), but letting Him be my focus in ministry - seeing Him at work and letting His nature/attributes/characteristics flow through the ministry and not me and my attempt to do ministry.
Below is a copy of document that I provided everyone for their prayer time. I hope it serves as another tool for you to use in your walk with Christ . . .
Seeking God
Psalms 111:10 (NIV) 10 The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom; all who follow his precepts have good understanding. To him belongs eternal praise.
Proverbs 1:7 (NIV) 7 The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and discipline.
Attributes of God[1]
Able
Almighty
Abounding In Love
All-Knowing
All-Powerful
Always Present
Attentive
Awesome
Beautiful
Blameless
Blessed
Compassionate
Consuming Fire
Enthroned
Eternal
Ever Present
Exalted
Faithful
First
Flawless
Forgiving
Gentle
Glorious
Good
Gracious
Has Authority
Has Integrity
Indescribable
Holy
Healing
Invisible
Jealous
Just
Kind
Last
Light
Living
Majestic
Merciful
Mighty
Patient
Peaceful
Perfect
Protective
Pure
Radiant
Righteous
Slow to Anger
Spirit
Strong
Supreme
Understanding
Tender
True
Sure
Unfailing Love
Unique
Wise
Wonderful
Worthy of Praise
Characteristics of Israel’s God[2]
1. Compassionate – Exod. 34:6; Deut. 4:31; 2 Chr. 30:9; Ps. 86:15; 103:8; 111:4; Neh. 9:17, 31; Joel 2:13; Jon. 4:2
2. Gracious – Exod. 34:6; 2 Chr. 30:9; Ps. 86:15; 103:8; 111:4; Neh. 9:17, 31; Joel 2:13; Jon. 4:2
3. Slow to Anger – Exod. 34:6; Ps. 86:15; 103:8; Neh. 9:17; Joel 2:13; Jon. 4:2
4. Abounding in Steadfast Love – Exod. 34:6-7; Ps. 86:15; 103:8; Neh. 9:17; Joel 2:13; Jon. 4:2
5. Faithful – Exod. 34:6; Ps. 86:15
6. Abundant Forgiveness – Neh. 9:17
7. Did not forsake them – Neh. 9:17, 31
8. Repents of Evil – Joel 2:13; Jon. 4:2
9. The Great God – Neh. 1:5; 9:32
10. Great and terrible – Neh. 1:5; 4:14; 9:32
11. Keeps Covenant – Neh. 1:5; 9:32
12. Steadfast love – Neh. 1:5; 9:32
Exodus 34:6-7 (NIV) “The Self-Revelation of God”6 And he passed in front of Moses, proclaiming, "The Lord, the Lord, the compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness, 7 maintaining love to thousands, and forgiving wickedness, rebellion and sin. Yet he does not leave the guilty unpunished; he punishes the children and their children for the sin of the fathers to the third and fourth generation."
Deuteronomy 4:31 (NIV) 31 For the Lord your God is a merciful God; he will not abandon or destroy you or forget the covenant with your forefathers, which he confirmed to them by oath.
2 Chronicles 30:9 (NIV) 9 If you return to the Lord, then your brothers and your children will be shown compassion by their captors and will come back to this land, for the Lord your God is gracious and compassionate. He will not turn his face from you if you return to him."
Psalms 86:15 (NIV) 15 But you, O Lord, are a compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness.
Psalms 103:8 (NIV) 8 The Lord is compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, abounding in love.
Psalms 111:4 (NIV) 4 He has caused his wonders to be remembered; the Lord is gracious and compassionate.
Nehemiah 1:5 (NIV) 5 Then I said: "O Lord, God of heaven, the great and awesome God, who keeps his covenant of love with those who love him and obey his commands,
Nehemiah 4:14 (NIV) 14 After I looked things over, I stood up and said to the nobles, the officials and the rest of the people, "Don't be afraid of them. Remember the Lord, who is great and awesome, and fight for your brothers, your sons and your daughters, your wives and your homes."
Nehemiah 9:17 (NIV) 17 They refused to listen and failed to remember the miracles you performed among them. They became stiff-necked and in their rebellion appointed a leader in order to return to their slavery. But you are a forgiving God, gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and abounding in love. Therefore you did not desert them,
Nehemiah 9:31-32 (NIV) 31 But in your great mercy you did not put an end to them or abandon them, for you are a gracious and merciful God. 32 "Now therefore, O our God, the great, mighty and awesome God, who keeps his covenant of love, do not let all this hardship seem trifling in your eyes--the hardship that has come upon us, upon our kings and leaders, upon our priests and prophets, upon our fathers and all your people, from the days of the kings of Assyria until today.
Joel 2:13 (NIV) 13 Rend your heart and not your garments. Return to the Lord your God, for he is gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and abounding in love, and he relents from sending calamity.
Jonah 4:2 (NIV) 2 He prayed to the Lord, "O Lord, is this not what I said when I was still at home? That is why I was so quick to flee to Tarshish. I knew that you are a gracious and compassionate God, slow to anger and abounding in love, a God who relents from sending calamity.
[1] List from T.W. Hunt & Claude V. King’s In God’s Presence, p. 41
[2] Special Topic from Dr. Bob Utley’s commentaries: www.freebiblecommentary.org
Below is a copy of document that I provided everyone for their prayer time. I hope it serves as another tool for you to use in your walk with Christ . . .
Seeking God
Psalms 111:10 (NIV) 10 The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom; all who follow his precepts have good understanding. To him belongs eternal praise.
Proverbs 1:7 (NIV) 7 The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and discipline.
Attributes of God[1]
Able
Almighty
Abounding In Love
All-Knowing
All-Powerful
Always Present
Attentive
Awesome
Beautiful
Blameless
Blessed
Compassionate
Consuming Fire
Enthroned
Eternal
Ever Present
Exalted
Faithful
First
Flawless
Forgiving
Gentle
Glorious
Good
Gracious
Has Authority
Has Integrity
Indescribable
Holy
Healing
Invisible
Jealous
Just
Kind
Last
Light
Living
Majestic
Merciful
Mighty
Patient
Peaceful
Perfect
Protective
Pure
Radiant
Righteous
Slow to Anger
Spirit
Strong
Supreme
Understanding
Tender
True
Sure
Unfailing Love
Unique
Wise
Wonderful
Worthy of Praise
Characteristics of Israel’s God[2]
1. Compassionate – Exod. 34:6; Deut. 4:31; 2 Chr. 30:9; Ps. 86:15; 103:8; 111:4; Neh. 9:17, 31; Joel 2:13; Jon. 4:2
2. Gracious – Exod. 34:6; 2 Chr. 30:9; Ps. 86:15; 103:8; 111:4; Neh. 9:17, 31; Joel 2:13; Jon. 4:2
3. Slow to Anger – Exod. 34:6; Ps. 86:15; 103:8; Neh. 9:17; Joel 2:13; Jon. 4:2
4. Abounding in Steadfast Love – Exod. 34:6-7; Ps. 86:15; 103:8; Neh. 9:17; Joel 2:13; Jon. 4:2
5. Faithful – Exod. 34:6; Ps. 86:15
6. Abundant Forgiveness – Neh. 9:17
7. Did not forsake them – Neh. 9:17, 31
8. Repents of Evil – Joel 2:13; Jon. 4:2
9. The Great God – Neh. 1:5; 9:32
10. Great and terrible – Neh. 1:5; 4:14; 9:32
11. Keeps Covenant – Neh. 1:5; 9:32
12. Steadfast love – Neh. 1:5; 9:32
Exodus 34:6-7 (NIV) “The Self-Revelation of God”6 And he passed in front of Moses, proclaiming, "The Lord, the Lord, the compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness, 7 maintaining love to thousands, and forgiving wickedness, rebellion and sin. Yet he does not leave the guilty unpunished; he punishes the children and their children for the sin of the fathers to the third and fourth generation."
Deuteronomy 4:31 (NIV) 31 For the Lord your God is a merciful God; he will not abandon or destroy you or forget the covenant with your forefathers, which he confirmed to them by oath.
2 Chronicles 30:9 (NIV) 9 If you return to the Lord, then your brothers and your children will be shown compassion by their captors and will come back to this land, for the Lord your God is gracious and compassionate. He will not turn his face from you if you return to him."
Psalms 86:15 (NIV) 15 But you, O Lord, are a compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness.
Psalms 103:8 (NIV) 8 The Lord is compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, abounding in love.
Psalms 111:4 (NIV) 4 He has caused his wonders to be remembered; the Lord is gracious and compassionate.
Nehemiah 1:5 (NIV) 5 Then I said: "O Lord, God of heaven, the great and awesome God, who keeps his covenant of love with those who love him and obey his commands,
Nehemiah 4:14 (NIV) 14 After I looked things over, I stood up and said to the nobles, the officials and the rest of the people, "Don't be afraid of them. Remember the Lord, who is great and awesome, and fight for your brothers, your sons and your daughters, your wives and your homes."
Nehemiah 9:17 (NIV) 17 They refused to listen and failed to remember the miracles you performed among them. They became stiff-necked and in their rebellion appointed a leader in order to return to their slavery. But you are a forgiving God, gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and abounding in love. Therefore you did not desert them,
Nehemiah 9:31-32 (NIV) 31 But in your great mercy you did not put an end to them or abandon them, for you are a gracious and merciful God. 32 "Now therefore, O our God, the great, mighty and awesome God, who keeps his covenant of love, do not let all this hardship seem trifling in your eyes--the hardship that has come upon us, upon our kings and leaders, upon our priests and prophets, upon our fathers and all your people, from the days of the kings of Assyria until today.
Joel 2:13 (NIV) 13 Rend your heart and not your garments. Return to the Lord your God, for he is gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and abounding in love, and he relents from sending calamity.
Jonah 4:2 (NIV) 2 He prayed to the Lord, "O Lord, is this not what I said when I was still at home? That is why I was so quick to flee to Tarshish. I knew that you are a gracious and compassionate God, slow to anger and abounding in love, a God who relents from sending calamity.
[1] List from T.W. Hunt & Claude V. King’s In God’s Presence, p. 41
[2] Special Topic from Dr. Bob Utley’s commentaries: www.freebiblecommentary.org
Friday, April 18, 2008
Psalm of the Day (Overview)
One the best tools that I have learned in regards to Spiritual Journeys has been the:
Psalm of the Day
I learned about this tool in my Spiritual Disciplines class at Midwestern Baptist Theological Seminary under the professor Dr. Don Whitney (you can learn more about him at http://www.biblicalspirituality.org/
I have taught this tool to countless individuals at church in counseling sessions, Bible study classes, seeker groups, and one on one mentoring. I can easily "gare-on-tee" that if you work this resource, it will bless your walk with Christ.
Here is how it works -
1. Get a Bible and open it up to the book of Psalms. (Usually, you will find it right in the middle of the Bible) There are 150 Psalms total. You could read 5 a day and finish the whole book in a month (avg 30 days in a month: 150/30=5).
2. What is today's date? Take whatever day of the month it is for the day that you are reading. For example, today is April 18th. Therefore, 18 is my number. I will read Psalm 18.
3. Next, I will add 30 (since there are 30 days in a month) to that number to read the next one. For example, 18+30=48. Next, I will read Psalm 48.
4. Continue adding 30 til you have read 5 psalms. For example: 48+30=78; 78+30=108; 108+30=138.
5. Since Psalm 119 is the longest chapter in the book of Psalms (and the longest in the Bible for that matter), I save it for the 31st of the month.
Here is the blessing of this tool:
A. It builds your prayer life. Many people share that they do not know how to pray. This is a great way to begin reading Biblical prayers and incorporating them into you own prayer life.
B. I can emphatically tell you that if you read the 5 Psalms of the day, one of them will speak to where you are emotionally, mentally, physically, or spiritual at that moment. I guarantee it!
Many people have come back to me sharing their own stories of how God has blessed them, spoken to them, encouraged them, and strengthened them while applying the Psalm of the Day. My hope is that it does the same for you!
Psalm of the Day
I learned about this tool in my Spiritual Disciplines class at Midwestern Baptist Theological Seminary under the professor Dr. Don Whitney (you can learn more about him at http://www.biblicalspirituality.org/
I have taught this tool to countless individuals at church in counseling sessions, Bible study classes, seeker groups, and one on one mentoring. I can easily "gare-on-tee" that if you work this resource, it will bless your walk with Christ.
Here is how it works -
1. Get a Bible and open it up to the book of Psalms. (Usually, you will find it right in the middle of the Bible) There are 150 Psalms total. You could read 5 a day and finish the whole book in a month (avg 30 days in a month: 150/30=5).
2. What is today's date? Take whatever day of the month it is for the day that you are reading. For example, today is April 18th. Therefore, 18 is my number. I will read Psalm 18.
3. Next, I will add 30 (since there are 30 days in a month) to that number to read the next one. For example, 18+30=48. Next, I will read Psalm 48.
4. Continue adding 30 til you have read 5 psalms. For example: 48+30=78; 78+30=108; 108+30=138.
5. Since Psalm 119 is the longest chapter in the book of Psalms (and the longest in the Bible for that matter), I save it for the 31st of the month.
Here is the blessing of this tool:
A. It builds your prayer life. Many people share that they do not know how to pray. This is a great way to begin reading Biblical prayers and incorporating them into you own prayer life.
B. I can emphatically tell you that if you read the 5 Psalms of the day, one of them will speak to where you are emotionally, mentally, physically, or spiritual at that moment. I guarantee it!
Many people have come back to me sharing their own stories of how God has blessed them, spoken to them, encouraged them, and strengthened them while applying the Psalm of the Day. My hope is that it does the same for you!
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